Relationship Renewal Day is celebrated annually on May 4. Relationships make us human; we experience emotions and connections with people around us, and with some of those people, we form strong and important bonds; however, life has a way of getting in between those bonds. We age, change, grow, move, and the list goes on. Some relationships don’t last, but it doesn’t have to be that way. If you’re willing to reconnect, today is your chance to do so. Read on to see how best you can enrich your relationships.
History of Relationship Renewal Day
Relationship Renewal Day, also known widely as Renewal Day, was created to give people a push or an opportunity to rekindle relationships. No matter the state of the relationship, this is a time that offers individuals a chance to set aside agendas and egos and come together with one objective ― to renew and rejuvenate their relationship.
Historically in the Northern Hemispheres, May has been a time of renewal and rebirth; attached to Spring, May bears significance. The exact origin of the day is unknown; however, with a large following and active participation from individuals annually, it’s relevant to many people worldwide. Not to be confused or written off as a couples’ day, Relationship Renewal Day gives individuals a chance to reconnect with themselves, old friends, new friends, family, and romantic partners.
The idea is never to leave a door shut forever. If we start wondering what could or might have been, then today is the perfect day to seize that opportunity and begin a journey of discovery, looking back while looking forward in the real sense. So, if you know that there is someone, even yourself, that you’d like to reconnect with, make the most of this day.
Relationship Renewal Day timeline
Hallmark establishes the day and sets the tone for enriching relationships.
Norman Vincent Peale releases “The Power of Positive Thinking,” which changes how people view their relationships with themselves.
After the “Columbine High School Shooting,” a campaign to give students a voice and help them feel safe in their formative years begins.
February 13 becomes “National Self-Love Day” thanks to the efforts of the hippie movement in the 60s.
Relationship Renewal Day FAQs
I lost a friendship, and it was my fault, can I renew our relationship?
That’s a complicated situation. At most, you can restore a great friendship, and if it doesn’t work out, you can take comfort in the knowledge that you tried to make it work.
Are relationships that important?
Yes, they are. Without friends and confidants, you will suffer intense emotional pain.
Can I make a new friend today?
Renewing connections isn’t just about old friends and relationships; it’s about you too. Thus, if making a new friend reinvigorates you, go out and do just that.
Relationship Renewal Day Activities
Pick up the phone
Sometimes, all it takes is a phone call. We get so caught up in who did what and when that we forget to say hello and see what happens; thus, make a phone call and see what happens.
Go out for a coffee date
Face-to-face meetings can be tense, whether with your partner or an old friend. Coffee is a neutral and non-threatening environment where you can tell that person in your life that you’d like a positive change in the relationship.
Invite friends over for a get-together
The people that want to reconnect and renew their relationship with you will be there. Invite them all and make time for each of them.
5 Facts About Relationships
Loneliness can kill you
Loneliness isn't just a mental state; it affects your emotional and physical well-being ― you are four times more likely to die from heart-related illness if you suffer from loneliness.
Its a part of being alive
Even animals reach out for companionship and have even been known to form strange bonds with creatures outside of their species.
One in 12 friendships last
The average person makes 396 friendships in their lifetime, but only a handful will last.
Friendship makes marriages work
Couples with a solid friendship and mutual respect for one another are significantly more likely to have a successful marriage.
Close friends share a bit of DNA
A study conducted by Yale and California University concluded that close friends share as much DNA with us as a fourth cousin — almost making them related.
Why We Love Relationship Renewal Day
There’s always a second chance
We just need a push. We want to make a connection; however, we sometimes need a reason, sign, or something to get us to make a change, and that’s what today is all about.
People are important
Having people in your life makes living worthwhile. Keeping and maintaining those relationships is necessary for you to continue to feel a connection with the world.
It's about love and renewing love
Whether your renewal is internal or external, it's about loving yourself and others. That is worth celebrating.
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