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National Wingman Day celebrates supportive friends and sidekicks every February 13. Held the day before Valentine’s Day, it’s the perfect occasion to show appreciation for those who always have your back, offer encouragement, and lend a hand. Plan a special outing, send a thoughtful gift, or simply reach out to thank your most reliable ally.
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History of National Wingman Day
In case you are wondering where the term ‘wingman comes from, it’s from the U.S. Air Force flying community. The word stems from a time-honored tradition that says a wingman will always watch the lead pilot´s back, stay with and protect him or her. The term originated in combat aviation. When pilots are flying in formation, especially in training for combat or in actual aerial combat, the person next to the pilot is referred to as the wingman. The pilot is traditionally on their right but they are sometimes on either side.
The wingman is the man on the pilot’s wing. Pilots are often trained to attack and defend in pairs watching out for each other in aerial combat. This Culture of Airmen includes integrity, service before self, and excellence in all they do. They accomplish their mission as a dedicated team. To succeed, airmen engage with other airmen in a way that fosters communication and connection. Practicing to be a good wingman needs to happen daily.
The idea behind National Wingman Day is that every day should be a Wingman Day. In everyday life, a wingman is part of a pair of friends socializing together, approaching other pairs and groups while avoiding the awkwardness of acting alone. The wingman strikes up a conversation and proposes group social activities, providing their friend with a pleasant and unthreatening social pretext to chat or flirt with a particularly attractive person. The wingman can also keep their friends safe by preventing them from drinking excessively or behaving in a reckless or socially embarrassing way.
National Wingman Day timeline
This term is popularized in the romantic military action drama film “Top Gun”, in which U.S. Navy pilots are shown in a bar pursuing women in pairs, similar to their in-flight tactics.
Another wingman is portrayed by Bud Baxter, who loans his New York apartment to four of his bosses as a place for their extramarital affairs.
In this film, the main character, Trent, tries to help his heartbroken friend Mike get back into the dating game.
The Wingman Day concept was established in October 2004 by the chief of staff of the Air Force, Gen. John P. Jumper.
National Wingman Day FAQs
When is National Wingman Day?
In 2027, National Wingman Day is observed on Saturday, February 13. This weekend placement makes it an ideal day to celebrate your supportive pals with a fun outing or gathering.
How many people have a wingman?
Millions of individuals across the United States and globally rely on close friends for support, encouragement, and advice, fitting the definition of a wingman. The informal nature of the role means its prevalence is widespread, even if not formally tracked.
What makes a good wingman?
For 2027, the qualities of an excellent wingman remain timeless: loyalty, empathy, and a keen understanding of their friend’s needs. They know when to step in and when to step back, ensuring their friend feels empowered and valued.
What is the origin of the term 'wingman'?
By 2027, the term ‘wingman’ is widely understood in its social context, but its roots are in aerial combat. The analogy of a supportive pilot watching your back perfectly translates to a friend offering assistance in various life situations.
National Wingman Day Activities
Share your wingman story
This day is about honoring our friends and right hands. So, if you have a story in which your BFF lent you a hand when you needed it, share it on your social media.
Say thank you to your wingman
Be creative about expressing your appreciation for their role in your life. Give them a special treat to thank them for their loyalty and support.
Show support to your wingman
Switch roles and step up to support your buddy in difficult circumstances. A good relationship is about being there for each other always.
5 Facts About Wingmen
The Day aims to boost morale
The day is aimed at strengthening morale in the units of the Air Force.
The teaching on Wingman Day
On this day it is again instilled in airmen that they should take care of one another.
Wingmen are not only people
Your dog can also be your wingman. Many people are attracted to dogs and will start a conversation with dog owners.
“Wingman” was coined in the Air Force
The word “wingman” is jargon used in the Airforce to describe the person looking out for the pilot in a plane.
Wingmen are protectors
According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, the wingman is the pilot that flies behind or at the side of the squadron leader.
Why We Love National Wingman Day
It is time to spoil loyal friends
Showing appreciation for your wingman’s efforts throughout the year should be your main priority on this day. Go on and spoil them.
Its time to hang out with a pal
Seek out your wingman and schedule some time together. You can reminisce about past exploits and hang out in style or casually.
You can help out a buddy
Use the day to be a wingman to your buddy. Go out of your way to do something you know they will truly appreciate.
National Wingman Day dates
| Year | Date | Day |
|---|---|---|
| 2027 | February 13 | Saturday |
| 2028 | February 13 | Sunday |
| 2029 | February 13 | Tuesday |
| 2030 | February 13 | Wednesday |
| 2031 | February 13 | Thursday |