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National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day – October 15, 2021

The loss of an infant is devastating. National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day honors those lives lost to miscarriage, Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, stillbirth, the death of a newborn, and more. National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day is a day to shatter the culture of silence surrounding infant and pregnancy loss. People defy the social and cultural taboos about speaking about the loss of their young ones by sharing their personal experiences and remembering their loss. This international day is observed particularly in the United States, Canada, and Australia. On October 15, take the opportunity to reflect, honor, and come together over pregnancy and infant loss. If you have a loved one who has experienced this loss, take the time to give them the love and support needed to process and recover.

History of National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day

The commemoration of and remembrance of infant and pregnancy loss was first observed in the United States. In 1988, the U.S. Congress chose the month of October as Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month and petitioned then-president Ronald Reagan to issue a proclamation about the observance of the month. 13 years later, three miscarriage awareness activists — Robyn Bear, Lisa Brown, and Tammy Novak — launched a petition campaign to get the U.S. government to declare October 15 an official holiday of remembrance of pregnancy loss and infant death. On September 28, 2006, the U.S. House of Representatives passed Concurrent Resolution 222, which endorsed the ideals of National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day.

On October 15, 2002, the United Kingdom witnessed the first Baby Loss Awareness Day after inspiration from the U.S.’s Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. Since 2003, the U.K. has also observed Baby Loss Awareness week starting from October 9 to the final day on October 15.

In Canada, the observance of the day emerged province by province. First, in 2005, the New Brunswick Department of Health and Wellness pushed for the observation of the day and called for residents within the province to raise awareness for and support of parents who were undergoing silent grief, having lost children due to miscarriages or infant death. Three years later, Manitoba recognized the holiday, followed by Ontario and Nova Scotia.

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day became an official national holiday in Australia after the Australian Parliament passed a motion in its favor on February 17, 2021. This was largely due to the efforts of Nicole Ballinger who worked with Members of Parliament, Joanna Gash and Shelley Hancock, in May 2008 to create an official observation day for pregnancy and infant loss, and John and Kate De’Laney who campaigned for the recognition of the day in Western Australia from 2014 till its official recognition in 2021.
Between 17–22 % of pregnancies result in miscarriage. Several public figures have shared their experiences with pregnancy loss and infant death publicly, including Mark Zuckerberg, Michelle Obama, and Whitney Houston.

National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day timeline

​October 25, 1988
Presidential Recognition

President Ronald Reagan proclaims October as Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month.

​​October 15, 2002
​The First Baby Loss Awareness Day

Robyn Bear, Lisa Brown, and Tammy Novak begin the movement to bring awareness to pregnancy and infant loss across the nation.

October 9–15, 2003
The First Wave of Light

The International Wave of Light is observed for the first time in the United Kingdom, which encourages those observing the day to light a candle at 7 P.M. in order to create a wave of light across the world — and to honor pregnancy and infant loss.

​February 17, 2021
A National Holiday in Australia

​After many years, miscarriage activists in Australia make it a national holiday.

National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day FAQs

Is there an International Miscarriage Day?

While there is no international day to remember miscarriages, many families, individuals, and organizations use the National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day to honor and remember the babies they lost to miscarriages.

What is the Global Wave of Light?

The Global Wave of Light is a worldwide lighting event that began in the U.K. in 2003. On October 15, people all over the world light candles, buildings, and monuments in honor and remembrance of their lost babies. The illuminations go around all time zones by 7 P.M., moving westward as a wave of light circumnavigates the globe.

What color represents miscarriage?

Since the official colors of National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day are pink and blue, many people use these colors to represent the grief and pain of miscarriages and promote better awareness of it and support for grieving families.

How to Observe National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day

  1. Participate in a "Walk To Remember" or wear a pink and blue ribbon

    Various nonprofits host walks to honor and remember pregnancy loss and infant death. Proceeds are typically donated to advocacy and awareness groups. Also, pink and blue are the official colors of National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. Simply attaching a pink and blue ribbon to your outfit for the day is a great way of showing support for grieving families and kick-starting a conversation about the infant mortality rate with people around you.

  2. Remember your baby or reach out to a loved one who has lost a little one

    Take some time to honor your baby by planting a memorial tree, journaling, or picking out memorial jewelry. These activities can help as you go through the healing process. This is a day to remind your loved ones that they are not alone. If you have family or friends who have experienced the grief of pregnancy loss and infant death, reach out to them and offer them support in any way you can. However, try to be respectful, sensitive, and unobtrusive in your approach towards supporting them.

  3. Learn more about pregnancy and infant loss and share your experience with pregnancy or infant loss

    Every year, about 90,000 infants die before the age of one, and at least 10% of known pregnancies end in miscarriage. Knowing facts like these can help you understand the scope of this loss. And sharing your experience is not just important for dealing with grief, it also reminds others like you that they are not alone. If you have tips that can help other families move through their grief and deal with it better, there is no better day to share them than on this day.

5 Public Figures Who Have Spoken Up About Their Infant Losses

  1. ​Beyoncé

    ​Beyonce's HBO special "Life Is But A Dream" honors the baby lost in her miscarriage and talks about the difficulty of grieving and healing during this time.

  2. ​Gabrielle Union

    ​Gabrielle Union opened up about her struggle with miscarriages, revealing that she has had eight or nine and was in an almost-constant cycle of IVF for years trying to get pregnant.

  3. ​Lily Allen

    The popular singer, Lily Allen, disclosed that she had a stillbirth when she was six months into her pregnancy in 2010 — when asked if she thought she has been able to get over the tragic loss, she responded that she didn’t think she ever would.

  4. Meghan Markle

    In November 2020, the Duchess of Sussex announced that she had had a miscarriage in July of the same year — in an Op-Ed by “The New York Times,” she said the experience pushed her to encourage others to check in on their loved ones, especially during a period when so many people had been having a difficult time.

  5. Michelle Obama

    In her memoir, “Becoming,” former U.S. first lady, Michelle Obama, revealed that she had suffered a miscarriage before conceiving her two girls — in an interview with “Good Morning America,” she bemoaned the stigma around baby loss and said, “I felt lost and alone…Because I didn’t know how common miscarriages are. Because we don’t talk about it. We sit in our own pain, thinking that somehow we are broken.”

Why National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day is Important

  1. It allows parents to grieve in different ways

    Many parents feel they have to grieve silently. This day provides parents with the space to come together and grieve openly about their loss — or to look for support from those to whom they may not normally turn. It breaks the culture of silence around grief. Grief is an intense and important emotion that cannot be shut out. On this day, we remind people that it is okay to feel negative emotions after losing a little loved one.

  2. It provides a caring touch

    Talking about pregnancy and infant loss is a very emotional subject, so many choose not to say anything at all. National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day helps those who have experienced loss to express their feelings about it, while teaching others how to be supportive. Some families even remember their lost young ones by holding an event in their honor. National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day also includes a candlelight vigil beginning at 7 P.M. local time. It is observed in the U.S., Europe, and Africa.

  3. It raises awareness about an important issue

    About one in four individuals and families will have their lives irrevocably altered by the death of their children during pregnancy, at birth, and in infancy. With over 17% of pregnancies ending in miscarriages, National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day points out the health gaps in our systems and raises awareness about the unfortunate infant mortality rate.

National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day dates

YearDateDay
2021October 15Friday
2022October 15Saturday
2023October 15Sunday
2024October 15Tuesday
2025October 15Wednesday

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