New York Warns of Rising Valentine's Day Romance Scams

State Division of Consumer Protection advises New Yorkers on how to spot and avoid these online dating fraud schemes.

Published on Feb. 10, 2026

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With Valentine's Day approaching, the New York State Division of Consumer Protection is alerting residents about an increase in romance scams targeting the state's residents. In the first three quarters of 2025, New Yorkers reported over $42 million in losses related to these scams, which involve criminals using fake online identities to manipulate and steal from victims, often older adults. The state is providing tips to help consumers recognize the warning signs and protect themselves.

Why it matters

Romance scams have become more prevalent as online dating and social media interactions have increased, especially around holidays like Valentine's Day. These scams can have devastating emotional and financial impacts on victims, making consumer education critical to preventing further losses.

The details

Romance scams occur when criminals create fake online profiles to feign romantic interest, build trust with victims, and then manipulate them into sending money or providing personal information that can be used for theft. Older adults, including widows, widowers, and recent divorcees, are frequently targeted. The state reported that New Yorkers lost over $42 million to these scams in the first three quarters of 2025 alone.

  • In the first three quarters of 2025, New Yorkers reported over $42 million in losses related to romance scams.

The players

New York State Division of Consumer Protection

A state agency that works to protect consumers from fraud, deception and unfair business practices.

Walter T. Mosley

The New York Secretary of State, who warned that romance scams "exploit people's emotions and trust" and urged consumers to be aware of the warning signs.

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What they’re saying

“So called 'romance scams' exploit people's emotions and trust, and no New Yorker should have to pay the price, emotionally or financially, for unscrupulous actors.”

— Walter T. Mosley, New York Secretary of State (mytwintiers.com)

What’s next

The New York State Division of Consumer Protection is urging residents to be vigilant for signs of romance scams and to report any suspicious activity to the agency's Consumer Assistance Helpline at 1-800-697-1220.

The takeaway

As online dating and social media interactions become more common, especially around holidays like Valentine's Day, it is critical for New Yorkers to be aware of the growing threat of romance scams and take steps to protect themselves from emotional and financial exploitation.