Comedian Chelsea Handler Calls Marriage 'Outdated' and 'Silly'

Handler says she prioritizes 'freedom' over commitment and doesn't want to be 'property' in a relationship.

Apr. 7, 2026 at 1:12am

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Comedian and political activist Chelsea Handler, 51, recently criticized marriage as an 'outdated' and 'silly' tradition, saying she prioritizes 'freedom' and doesn't want to be seen as 'property' in a relationship. Handler, who is currently dating a 'much younger' man she calls 'Cowboy', said she has never been 'thirsty for a man or a partner' and prefers casual encounters over serious commitments.

Why it matters

Handler's comments reflect a growing trend among some celebrities and public figures to openly reject traditional relationship norms like marriage, especially as attitudes around gender roles, personal freedom, and family structures continue to evolve in the US. Her stance aligns with her past statements about being 'child-free' and a 'threat' to 'straight men' due to her independent lifestyle choices.

The details

In a recent podcast interview, Handler said she 'likes' casual hookups and traveling alone, stating: 'I like that. I like traveling a lot. I like hooking up with guys. I don't like to get too serious. I don't want someone in my space all the time. I just am not interested in that.' She also implied that having adult children, like her podcast host Angie Martinez, means 'freedom' from the responsibilities of raising young kids.

  • Handler made these comments during a recent appearance on the Angie Martinez IRL podcast.

The players

Chelsea Handler

A 51-year-old comedian and political activist who has publicly rejected traditional relationship norms like marriage.

Angie Martinez

A podcast host who has adult children, which Handler suggested gives her more 'freedom'.

Cowboy

A 'much younger' man that Handler is currently dating, whom she met at a blackjack table in Las Vegas.

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What they’re saying

“I've never been very thirsty for a man or a partner. You've got to really kind of get my attention for me to pay attention in a serious way, because otherwise it's a bunch of casual encounters.”

— Chelsea Handler, Comedian

“My whole vibe is about freedom. I want freedom. I don't have to check in with anybody about anything I do. I don't have to consider or consult with anyone.”

— Chelsea Handler, Comedian

“I just think marriage is so outdated. It's just a really silly idea. You're kind of, like, property a little bit.”

— Chelsea Handler, Comedian

The takeaway

Handler's rejection of marriage and traditional relationship norms reflects a broader cultural shift, especially among some celebrities and public figures, towards prioritizing personal freedom and independence over long-term committed partnerships. Her stance aligns with her past statements about being 'child-free' and a 'threat' to 'straight men', underscoring how attitudes around gender roles, family structures, and personal fulfillment continue to evolve.