NJ Nurse Killed by Ex-Fiance in Murder-Suicide After Restraining Order

Tomeka Kamwani's family says she had an active restraining order against her former fiance when he allegedly attacked her.

Apr. 3, 2026 at 6:20pm

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An extreme close-up photograph of shattered glass, capturing the stark and gritty aftermath of a violent incident.A shattered window reflects the harsh realities of domestic violence, even when legal protections are in place.Swedesboro Today

A 41-year-old nurse in New Jersey named Tomeka Kamwani was allegedly killed by her ex-fiance in a murder-suicide just weeks after she was granted a restraining order against him. Kamwani's sister said the former fiance had violated the restraining order multiple times in recent weeks before the fatal incident.

Why it matters

This tragic case highlights the ongoing challenges and risks that victims of domestic violence can face, even after obtaining a restraining order. It raises questions about the enforcement of such orders and the need for more comprehensive support systems to protect vulnerable individuals.

The details

According to reports, Kamwani obtained a temporary restraining order against her ex-fiance on February 14 after he allegedly followed her to a friend's house. He was then arrested a week later for breaking into her home and punching her in the face. However, a judge later denied a prosecution motion to keep him in jail until trial.

  • Kamwani obtained a temporary restraining order against her ex-fiance on February 14.
  • The ex-fiance was arrested on February 21 for violating the restraining order.
  • A judge denied a motion to keep the ex-fiance in jail until trial on March 3.
  • Kamwani was allegedly killed by her ex-fiance in a murder-suicide on March 27.

The players

Tomeka Kamwani

A 41-year-old nurse in New Jersey who was allegedly killed by her ex-fiance in a murder-suicide.

Lakiecha Brooks

Tomeka Kamwani's sister, who spoke out about the case and set up a GoFundMe page to support Kamwani's children.

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What they’re saying

“'A loving mother, daughter, sister, and friend, Tomeka's life was taken far too soon, leaving behind the center of her world, her four children.'”

— Lakiecha Brooks, Tomeka Kamwani's sister

What’s next

The Woolwich Township Police Department has not yet provided any updates on the investigation into the murder-suicide.

The takeaway

This tragic case underscores the need for stronger enforcement of restraining orders and more comprehensive support systems to protect victims of domestic violence, even after they have taken legal action.