Roxie Sothman, Beloved Iowa Educator, Passes Away at 65

The longtime social worker and alternative school teacher is remembered for her compassion, humor, and devotion to family.

Apr. 16, 2026 at 8:36pm

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An extremely abstracted, out-of-focus photograph of a woman's hands gently tending to a rose bush, the petals and leaves blurred into soft, warm pools of color, conceptually representing the tranquility and beauty that Roxie found in nature.Roxie Sothman's lifelong passion for gardening and connecting with nature provided solace and joy, even in her final days.Red Oak Today

Roxann 'Roxie' Sothman, a 65-year-old resident of Red Oak, Iowa, passed away on April 14, 2026, surrounded by her loved ones. Roxie was known for her lifelong career in social work and alternative education, where she supported and encouraged at-risk students. She is remembered by her family and friends for her infectious laughter, deep love of the outdoors, and unwavering dedication to her husband, children, and grandchildren.

Why it matters

Roxie's passing marks the loss of a beloved community member who spent decades making a difference in the lives of young people through her work in social services and alternative education. Her story highlights the important role that compassionate educators can play in supporting vulnerable youth and helping them find success.

The details

Roxie held a variety of jobs throughout her life, but her true passions were in social work and as an alternative school teacher. In these roles, she supported and encouraged at-risk students, helping them overcome challenges and reach their full potential. Outside of work, Roxie was known for her love of the outdoors, gardening, and spending quality time with her family and friends. She particularly enjoyed 'gravel traveling' and hunting with her husband Brian, with whom she shared 12 years of marriage.

  • Roxie was born on April 29, 1960.
  • She passed away on April 14, 2026, at the age of 65.
  • A public visitation and prayer service will be held on Saturday, April 18, 2026.

The players

Roxann 'Roxie' Sothman

A 65-year-old resident of Red Oak, Iowa, who dedicated her career to social work and alternative education, supporting at-risk youth.

Brian Sothman

Roxie's husband of 12 years, with whom she shared a love of the outdoors and activities like gravel traveling and hunting.

Trisha Cook

Roxie's daughter and best friend, with whom she shared a special bond.

Gabrielle Johnson

One of Roxie's twin daughters, whom she raised with her husband Jeff Petersen.

Felesha Petersen

Roxie's other twin daughter, whom she raised with her husband Jeff Petersen.

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The takeaway

Roxie Sothman's life was defined by her unwavering compassion, her dedication to supporting vulnerable youth, and her deep love for her family and the outdoors. Her passing is a profound loss for the Red Oak community, but her legacy of kindness and service will continue to inspire those whose lives she touched.