State Warns of Valentine's Day Romance Scams

Officials urge caution as scammers target dating app and social media users.

Published on Feb. 12, 2026

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Connecticut's Department of Consumer Protection has issued a warning about romance scams ahead of Valentine's Day, when more people seek online connections. Scammers use manipulative tactics to build trust before requesting money, often claiming they cannot meet in person due to distance, work, health or financial issues. Victims typically lose an average of $2,000, according to the Federal Trade Commission.

Why it matters

Romance scams can be devastating, as scammers take advantage of people's vulnerability and trust. With more people turning to online dating and social media to find connections, especially around holidays like Valentine's Day, state officials want to raise awareness of these deceptive tactics to protect consumers.

The details

In one complaint filed with the Department of Consumer Protection, a consumer exchanged emails with someone claiming to live in Russia. The scammer said they could not afford a travel visa to meet in person and requested financial help. The victim sent $1,400 through a wire transfer, and the scammer then requested an additional $2,570, claiming it was required when leaving the country. The victim refused the second payment after recognizing scam warning signs.

  • The Department of Consumer Protection issued the alert on February 12, 2026, ahead of Valentine's Day.

The players

Department of Consumer Protection

The state agency that issued the warning about romance scams.

Bryan T. Cafferelli

The Commissioner of the Department of Consumer Protection who stated that "Romance scams are devastating and deceitful."

William Tong

The Connecticut Attorney General who advised, "Never send money to someone you haven't met in person. If something doesn't feel right, trust your gut and reach out for help."

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What they’re saying

“Romance scams are devastating and deceitful. During a trust-building process, scammers will manipulate and take advantage of your vulnerability.”

— Bryan T. Cafferelli, Commissioner, Department of Consumer Protection (wfsb.com)

“Never send money to someone you haven't met in person. If something doesn't feel right, trust your gut and reach out for help.”

— William Tong, Attorney General (wfsb.com)

What’s next

Officials advised victims who sent money through these methods to contact their bank or the payment company immediately and request refunds. Residents can also report romance scams to the Federal Trade Commission and the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center.

The takeaway

This warning highlights the importance of being cautious when connecting with strangers online, especially around holidays when people may be more vulnerable to romance scams. By raising awareness of these deceptive tactics, state officials hope to protect consumers from falling victim to these devastating crimes.