Death Doulas Provide Comfort and Care for the Dying

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When Nicole Kidman's mother was dying, the actress found herself wishing there was someone whose job it was to provide solace and care. This experience inspired Kidman's interest in becoming a death doula, whose role is to offer compassionate support to people who are dying or facing the death of a loved one. Many death doulas find their way into the work while grieving a loss, and they help clients navigate fear and uncertainty about death, express their wishes for end-of-life care, and have meaningful conversations with their families.

Why it matters

Loneliness is a significant issue for many people nearing the end of their lives, and death doulas aim to provide a comforting presence and practical support during this difficult time. As more people express interest in this role, it highlights the growing need for end-of-life care that goes beyond traditional medical support.

The details

Death doulas like Ken Breniman in Oakland, California offer companionship to their clients and help them navigate fear and uncertainty about death and what might come after it. They also encourage people to express their wishes for end-of-life care and to have meaningful conversations with their families. A death doula's role can be pragmatic, such as helping with wills or advanced directives, or more emotional, providing a calming presence during the dying process.

• Nicole Kidman recently shared her interest in becoming a death doula at an event at the University of San Francisco on Saturday.

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