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New Book Examines Remarriage and Relationship Challenges
Dr. Harold L. Bare, Sr., PhD explores counseling cases and pathways to healthier marriages
Published on Feb. 22, 2026
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Dr. Harold L. Bare, Sr., Ph.D., presents a thoughtful examination of remarriage and relational dynamics in his new book, "Bedroom of Divorce: Second Time Around." Drawing from counseling cases involving divorced and remarried individuals, the book explores the psychological and physical challenges couples face while navigating unresolved emotions, blended histories, and expectations for long-term partnership.
Why it matters
The book places emphasis on the capacity of husbands and wives to resolve conflict in mature and constructive ways, offering guidance for couples seeking stability, trust, and deeper fulfillment in marriage. It highlights how unresolved stress, miscommunication, and unmet expectations can persist even in long-standing unions, underscoring the need for intentional communication, self-awareness, and shared responsibility.
The details
Through real-world scenarios and sociological insight, Dr. Bare addresses common myths surrounding serial relationships, particularly the assumption that emotional and physical complications fade easily with time. The book encourages readers to consider happiness as a deliberate choice supported by self-discipline and trust-building, and also reflects on the spiritual dimension of marriage, presenting it as a bond meant to achieve social and physical unity when nurtured with care and accountability.
- Dr. Bare's new book, "Bedroom of Divorce: Second Time Around," was published on February 18, 2026.
The players
Dr. Harold L. Bare, Sr., Ph.D.
A sociologist educated at the University of Virginia, with doctoral studies in criminology at Virginia Tech University and graduate training in mental health and family studies from The College of William and Mary. He has served as a senior pastor for forty-four years and works as a consultant, author, and motivational speaker. He also leads the nonprofit organization Encouraging the Saints.
Dr. Laila B. Bare
Dr. Bare's wife, with whom he is married.
What they’re saying
“Bedroom of Divorce: Second Time Around centers on the idea that legal or social permanence does not always equate to emotional health within a marriage.”
— Dr. Harold L. Bare, Sr., Ph.D., Author (jammujournal.com)
What’s next
The book is currently in development, and a dedicated website is being created to provide additional information about the book and its author.
The takeaway
Dr. Bare's new book offers valuable insights and guidance for couples navigating the challenges of remarriage and blended families, emphasizing the importance of intentional communication, self-awareness, and shared responsibility in achieving long-term marital fulfillment.
