Pittsburgh Man's One-Man Show 'Real Men Wear Scarves' Set for NYC Fringe Festival

Andy Paluselli's autobiographical play about his relationship with his father will premiere at the 2026 New York City Fringe Festival.

Published on Feb. 23, 2026

Andy Paluselli will present his one-man show "Real Men Wear Scarves in Pittsburgh" as part of the 2026 New York City Fringe Festival. The play, written and performed by Paluselli and directed by Herman Sebek, is a true story about Paluselli's difficult relationship with his father over the past 30 years. The production will have four performances at the Chain Theatre in New York City in April 2026.

Why it matters

Paluselli's play explores themes of growing up gay in Pittsburgh and the complex father-son dynamic, providing a personal perspective on these universal experiences. The Fringe Festival offers a platform for independent artists to share their stories and perspectives with wider audiences.

The details

Real Men Wear Scarves in Pittsburgh is a one-man show that Paluselli originally began writing 30 years ago when he was pursuing an acting career in Los Angeles. The play is divided into two acts - the first being Paluselli's revenge fantasy at his father's funeral, and the second being written after his father fell terminally ill in 2024. Paluselli's goal in completing the play was to find healing for himself, not to harm his father's legacy.

  • The production will be presented as part of the 2026 New York City Fringe Festival.
  • Performances will take place on Sun April 5 at 7:15pm, Thu April 9 at 7:55pm, Sat April 11 at 3:55pm, and Fri April 17 at 7:55pm.

The players

Andy Paluselli

The writer and performer of "Real Men Wear Scarves in Pittsburgh". Paluselli is a Pittsburgh native who pursued an acting career in Los Angeles before becoming a flight attendant for Delta Air Lines.

Herman Sebek

The director of "Real Men Wear Scarves in Pittsburgh". Sebek is Paluselli's spouse of 28 years and has 40 years of experience as a performer, including roles in 5 Broadway shows.

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What they’re saying

“Finding the right balance of telling his experience has been an emotional ride. However, in the end, this play is a love letter not only to his father and to that boy who started this healing process 30 years ago but to all the 'misunderstood' who feel so alone.”

— Andy Paluselli, Writer/Performer (broadwayworld.com)

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The takeaway

Paluselli's deeply personal one-man show explores the complex dynamics of father-son relationships and the experiences of growing up gay, providing a unique perspective that resonates with audiences seeking authentic, independent storytelling.