Southern Charm's Salley Carson Slides Into Eagles Player Cooper DeJean's DMs

Reality star says she's 'scared' Nikki Bella 'is going to beat my ass' over the athlete

Published on Feb. 18, 2026

Reality TV star Salley Carson revealed on the 'Not Skinny But Not Fat' podcast that she has slid into the Instagram DMs of Philadelphia Eagles player Cooper DeJean, despite DeJean being rumored to be dating WWE star Nikki Bella. Carson said she's 'scared' Bella 'is going to beat my ass' if she continues pursuing DeJean.

Why it matters

This story highlights the drama and intrigue surrounding celebrity dating lives, as well as the risks reality stars take when trying to connect with high-profile athletes on social media. It also touches on the potential for conflict when multiple public figures show interest in the same person.

The details

Carson, a 31-year-old 'Southern Charm' star, said she has been 'liking' DeJean's Instagram posts and has even DMed him, to which he replied. She noted that DeJean, 23, is 'dating, or not dating, casually seeing a 43-year-old right now,' referring to the 42-year-old Bella. Carson said she sent DeJean an article about his rumored relationship with Bella and asked if they were dating. While DeJean has denied dating Bella in interviews, the WWE star has posted photos suggesting a connection between the two.

  • In late 2025, rumors began circulating that DeJean and Bella were dating.
  • Earlier this month, Bella seemed to confirm her romance with DeJean after weeks of buzz.

The players

Salley Carson

A 31-year-old reality TV star on 'Southern Charm' who has been pursuing Cooper DeJean on social media.

Cooper DeJean

A 23-year-old football player for the Philadelphia Eagles who has been rumored to be dating WWE star Nikki Bella.

Nikki Bella

A 42-year-old WWE star who has been rumored to be dating Cooper DeJean since late 2025.

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What they’re saying

“I just slid into Cooper DeJean's [DMs]”

— Salley Carson, Reality TV star (Not Skinny But Not Fat podcast)

“Now I'm scared because that girl is going to beat my ass if they are dating”

— Salley Carson, Reality TV star (Not Skinny But Not Fat podcast)

“Can you blame a girl for having good taste? I mean, Pro Bowl, baby.”

— Nikki Bella (WWE Royal Rumble)

What’s next

It remains to be seen if Salley Carson and Cooper DeJean will meet in person, and whether Nikki Bella will address the situation with Carson directly.

The takeaway

This story highlights the complexities and risks involved when reality stars and athletes navigate the world of celebrity dating, as well as the potential for drama and conflict when multiple public figures show interest in the same person.