Miss Manners Weighs In on Etiquette for Burps and Flatulence

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In her latest column, Miss Manners addresses a reader's question about the etiquette around responding to burps and flatulence with 'bless you.' While the reader finds this habit strange, Miss Manners explains that there is no real logic as to why flatulence and burping are considered ruder than sneezing, though saying 'bless you' after anything other than a sneeze does seem like an admonishment.

Why it matters

This question highlights the nuances and inconsistencies in social etiquette, particularly around bodily functions that are often considered impolite. Miss Manners' response provides insight into how we determine what behaviors are acceptable in public and the reasoning (or lack thereof) behind these social norms.

The details

The reader, who recently moved in with her boyfriend, discovered that he says 'bless you' not only when someone sneezes, but also when they burp or pass gas. When she questioned him about this habit, he said he was taught it was polite. The reader finds this strange and wonders if it is a normal custom she is unaware of.

• The reader recently moved in with her boyfriend and discovered his habit of saying 'bless you' for burps and flatulence.

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