Retirees Seek to Feel Valued by Valuing Others

Retirement can bring a loss of purpose and connection, but simple acts of respect and engagement can help.

Published on Mar. 4, 2026

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A recent article explored the "retirement crisis no one warns you about: mattering." Many retirees struggle with feeling less valued, needed or connected after leaving the workplace. Remedies exist, such as making an effort to see and appreciate service workers. Relocating to a new area can also be challenging, as retirees leave behind established social networks.

Why it matters

The article highlights the often overlooked psychological and social challenges that come with retirement. Losing a sense of purpose and connection can lead to depression for many retirees. Understanding these issues and finding ways to stay engaged and valued in retirement is important for retirees' overall well-being.

The details

The article profiles a retired medical school dean and his college-employed wife who struggled to find meaningful work after moving to Sarasota, Florida. The doctor tried but failed to get a teaching position. The piece also notes research showing nearly a third of retirees report depressive symptoms. Staying visible and making human connections, even with service workers, can help retirees feel valued.

  • The article was published on March 4, 2026.

The players

Froma Harrop

The author of the article and a columnist who writes for Creators Syndicate.

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What they’re saying

“If you're not seeing them, why should they look back polite. It reflects a lack of respect.”

— Froma Harrop, Columnist (herald-review.com)

The takeaway

Retirement can bring a loss of purpose and social connections, but simple acts of respect and engagement with others, even service workers, can help retirees feel valued and stave off feelings of depression and isolation.