Abandoned on the Mountain: The Dangerous Trend of 'Alpine Divorce'

Hikers, bikers, and climbers are sharing stories of being left behind by partners in the Austrian Alps, raising concerns about toxic masculinity and relationship abuse.

Apr. 12, 2026 at 1:50pm

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A growing number of women are sharing stories on social media about being abandoned by their partners while hiking, biking, and climbing in the Austrian Alps. This troubling trend, dubbed 'Alpine divorce,' has dark undertones, as leaving someone less experienced in dangerous mountain terrain can lead to severe consequences. Experts say this behavior is a symptom of unhealthy relationship dynamics and toxic masculinity, where one partner's needs take priority over the other's safety.

Why it matters

The rise of 'Alpine divorce' highlights the risks of power imbalances and lack of empathy in relationships, which can have life-threatening consequences when played out in remote, rugged environments. This issue sheds light on the need for better communication, mutual respect, and prioritizing safety in outdoor activities, especially for couples with differing skill levels.

The details

Hiking guide Stefanie Peiker has witnessed multiple instances of men abandoning their female partners on mountain trails after arguments, leaving them injured and alone. Mountain rescue squad leader Andreas Truegler says he was 'shocked' by the number of women sharing these stories online, calling it 'not what you do as a decent human being.' Experts say this behavior is often driven by narcissistic traits, a desire for validation, and toxic masculinity, where one partner's needs take priority even at the expense of the other's safety.

  • In July 2024, Peiker came across a woman who had been left injured and alone on a mountain trail after an argument with her boyfriend.
  • In the past few weeks, women have been sharing their 'Alpine divorce' stories on Reddit, Instagram, and TikTok.
  • In February 2026, Thomas Plamberger was found guilty of gross negligent manslaughter for leaving his girlfriend Kerstin Gurtner to die of hypothermia on Austria's Grossglockner mountain.

The players

Stefanie Peiker

A hiking guide in the Austrian Alps who has witnessed multiple instances of women being abandoned by their partners on mountain trails.

Andreas Truegler

A squad leader and deputy head of mountain rescue in the Austrian Alps, who was 'shocked' by the number of 'Alpine divorce' stories being shared online.

Dr. Sabrina Romanoff

A clinical psychologist in New York City who says 'Alpine divorce' can be a wake-up call for people in dysfunctional romantic relationships.

Max Eberle

A freelance journalist and hiking instructor in Austria, Germany, Italy, and Switzerland who has witnessed instances of 'toxic Alpinism' where men push their partners beyond their limits.

Arielle Konig

A woman in Hawaii who survived an attack by her husband during a hike last year, which was described as an 'attempted Alpine divorce.'

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What they’re saying

“'This is not what you do as a decent human being.'”

— Andreas Truegler, Mountain rescue squad leader and deputy head

“'The issue isn't the mountain, but the mind-set the person is bringing to the relationship and how they're handling power and empathy and responsibility.'”

— Dr. Sabrina Romanoff, Clinical psychologist

“'There's the male ego, the pressure to be faster and stronger than others and to climb mountains not because of the beauty and the experience but to be able to tell someone some superlative that you reached.'”

— Andreas Truegler, Mountain rescue squad leader and deputy head

“'It's very common that you see a couple in the mountains, and it's always like the guy pushing his wife or his girlfriend to go further when she is totally exhausted and wants to go back.'”

— Max Eberle, Freelance journalist and hiking instructor

“'They want to score a new personal record or hike a new route, and in the worst cases, their partners die or are abandoned and traumatized for life.'”

— Max Eberle, Freelance journalist and hiking instructor

What’s next

Authorities in the Austrian Alps are urging hikers, bikers, and climbers to call for help immediately if they feel unsafe or are abandoned by their partners. Experts also recommend ending relationships with partners who exhibit this type of selfish and dangerous behavior.

The takeaway

The rise of 'Alpine divorce' highlights the need for better communication, mutual respect, and prioritizing safety in outdoor activities, especially for couples with differing skill levels. This troubling trend is a symptom of deeper relationship issues rooted in toxic masculinity and a lack of empathy, which can have life-threatening consequences when played out in remote, rugged environments.