Longtime Molokai Resident Phyllis Mililani Gomes Passes Away at 82

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Phyllis Mililani Gomes, a lifelong resident of Molokai, Hawaii, passed away peacefully on December 21, 2025 at the age of 82. Gomes is survived by her four children, 15 grandchildren, and 17 great-grandchildren, as well as her seven siblings. She was preceded in death by her husband of 51 years, Raymond T. Gomes Jr., who passed away in 2014.

Why it matters

Phyllis Mililani Gomes was a beloved figure in the tight-knit community of Hoʻolehua, Molokai, where she lived her entire life. Her passing marks the end of an era for many locals who remember her warmth, generosity, and commitment to her family and community.

The details

Gomes was born on December 15, 1943 to William (Palapala) Starkey and Lucy English Starkey. She graduated from Molokai High School in 1961 and went on to raise her four children in Hoʻolehua. Known for her kind spirit and ability to light up any room, Gomes dedicated her life to supporting her family and community.

• Phyllis Mililani Gomes passed away on December 21, 2025.
• A Celebration of Life is scheduled for Saturday, March 21, 2026 in Hoʻolehua.

What’s next

A Celebration of Life is scheduled for Saturday, March 21, 2026 at the Lanikeha Community Center in Hoʻolehua, with visitation from 9 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. and the service beginning at 10:30 a.m.