RHORI Star Kelsey Swanson Reveals Her Boyfriend Is a Huge Housewives Fan

The mystery man doesn't want his face shown on the show, but he's a 'reality TV junkie' who knows every detail about the franchise.

Apr. 3, 2026 at 2:27pm

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In an appearance on Watch What Happens Live, Kelsey Swanson, a cast member on the new reality show The Real Housewives of Rhode Island, opened up about her secret boyfriend. She revealed that he is a massive fan of the Real Housewives franchise, even though he prefers to keep his identity hidden from the show's cameras.

Why it matters

Swanson's relationship status and the identity of her much-older boyfriend have been a source of intrigue for fans of the new Housewives franchise. Her revelation that he is an avid Bravo viewer provides insight into their unconventional dynamic and the challenges they may face as their relationship plays out on the show.

The details

Swanson met her boyfriend, who is from one of Rhode Island's 'most prominent families,' when she was 19 years old. They connected on a boat and soon after, Swanson became a 'lady of leisure' living in his 16,000 square-foot estate. However, the relationship has complications, as Swanson's boyfriend also has another girlfriend when he spends time in Miami during the first part of the year.

  • Swanson and her boyfriend met on a boat when she was 19 years old.
  • Swanson's boyfriend is a longtime fan of the Real Housewives franchise, as revealed during her appearance on Watch What Happens Live on April 2, 2026.

The players

Kelsey Swanson

A cast member on the new reality show The Real Housewives of Rhode Island.

Kelsey Swanson's Boyfriend

A much-older man from one of Rhode Island's 'most prominent families' who is in an unconventional relationship with Swanson, including having another girlfriend in Miami.

Andy Cohen

The host of Watch What Happens Live and the executive producer of the Real Housewives franchise.

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What they’re saying

“'He's the biggest Housewives fan, by the way. He's a reality TV junkie. Hardcore. He knows every season. He knows what season [of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills] Erika Jayne's husband went to jail. He knows everything, and he loves it. He was very supportive.'”

— Kelsey Swanson, RHORI Cast Member

“'But he was like, 'Don't show my face,''”

— Andy Cohen, Host, *Watch What Happens Live*

What’s next

Fans will have to tune in to future episodes of The Real Housewives of Rhode Island to see if Kelsey Swanson's boyfriend makes any appearances or if his identity is ever revealed, despite his preference to remain anonymous.

The takeaway

Kelsey Swanson's relationship with her much-older, prominent Rhode Island boyfriend provides an intriguing storyline for the new Housewives franchise, highlighting the complexities of unconventional relationships and the challenges of balancing public exposure with personal privacy.