Mark Ballas' Wife BC Jean Shares How Her Love Language Has Evolved

The couple opened up about their relationship and how becoming parents has changed their priorities.

Jan. 30, 2026 at 6:07pm

In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, Mark Ballas and his wife BC Jean discussed how their love languages have evolved over the course of their 9-year marriage, especially after welcoming their 2-year-old son Banksi Wylde. Jean shared that while physical touch used to be her top love language, acts of service has become more important to her since becoming a mom, like when Ballas takes out the trash. The couple also talked about how they navigate celebrating Valentine's Day as parents and how they continue to inspire each other creatively.

Why it matters

This story provides a glimpse into how long-term relationships and priorities can shift, especially after major life events like getting married and having a child. It highlights how open communication and understanding each other's evolving love languages are important for maintaining a healthy partnership.

The details

Mark Ballas and BC Jean met in 2012 at a mutual friend's party where Jean was performing. Ballas was impressed by her singing voice and the two started dating shortly after. They got engaged in 2015 and married later that year. In 2023, they welcomed their first child, a son named Banksi Wylde. In the exclusive interview, the couple shared how their love languages have changed over the years, with Jean noting that acts of service like Ballas taking out the trash has become more important to her since becoming a mom. The couple also discussed how they plan to celebrate Valentine's Day as parents, saying it's now more about getting a babysitter and treating themselves.

  • Mark Ballas and BC Jean met in 2012.
  • They got engaged in November 2015.
  • They married in November 2015.
  • They welcomed their son Banksi Wylde in November 2023.
  • The interview took place on January 29, 2026.

The players

Mark Ballas

A 39-year-old dancer, singer, and actor who is married to BC Jean.

BC Jean

A 38-year-old singer-songwriter who is married to Mark Ballas. She is the mother of their 2-year-old son Banksi Wylde.

Banksi Wylde

The 2-year-old son of Mark Ballas and BC Jean.

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What they’re saying

“Mine used to be physical touch, and it still probably is still up there.”

— BC Jean

“I think it's like, becoming a mom, it's nice when someone takes the trash out, and when he does that.”

— BC Jean

“I think you know those are mine.”

— Mark Ballas

“I think it's an excuse to get a sitter and go and treat ourselves.”

— Mark Ballas

The takeaway

This story highlights how long-term relationships evolve, especially after major life events like marriage and parenthood. It shows the importance of open communication and understanding each other's changing needs and love languages in order to maintain a healthy partnership.