Dating Tips for Seniors Seeking Love After 50

Veteran columnist Tom Blake shares 10 pieces of advice for single seniors navigating the world of dating again

Published on Feb. 13, 2026

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With Valentine's Day approaching, many single seniors are considering whether to try dating again. Veteran columnist Tom Blake, who became single three years ago, shares 10 tips for seniors planning to re-enter the dating world, including being cautious of scammers, making a list of desired partner qualities, conducting background checks, and staying positive and open-minded.

Why it matters

As people live longer, the senior dating scene has grown, but it also comes with unique challenges like health issues, lingering feelings for deceased spouses, and the need to re-establish social connections. Blake's advice aims to help seniors navigate these complexities and find fulfilling relationships in their later years.

The details

Blake's 10 tips include: 1) Be cautious of scammers and 'schemers' online; 2) Make a written list of desired partner qualities; 3) Learn how to conduct background checks; 4) Research dating sites for your age group; 5) Try to enjoy the dating process despite potential disappointment; 6) Understand that lingering feelings for deceased spouses are normal; 7) Prioritize open communication in a new relationship; 8) Be prepared to handle health issues that arise; 9) Get out and meet new people through clubs and activities; and 10) Stay positive and be yourself.

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The players

Tom Blake

A veteran columnist who became single three years ago and is sharing his dating advice for other seniors.

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What they’re saying

“If someone sounds too good to be true, they might actually be. Ask your friends and children and even me for advice and opinions about someone you've met.”

— Tom Blake, Columnist (picketfencemedia.com)

“Six months after I became single three years ago, I had two one-hour dates with a woman I met online. She lived 40 minutes from my home and was 20 years younger and attractive. When I first saw her, I thought, 'What the heck does this woman see in me?'”

— Tom Blake, Columnist (picketfencemedia.com)

The takeaway

As seniors navigate the unique challenges of dating later in life, maintaining an open and cautious mindset, while also staying positive and true to oneself, can help them find fulfilling relationships and companionship.