Cherished Friendship Transcends Time and Distance

Gwen Ford Faulkenberry reflects on the blessing of a lifelong bond with her children's former doctor in Alaska.

Mar. 29, 2026 at 6:57am

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An abstract, impressionistic scene of two women sitting together in a warm, blurred living room setting, conveying a sense of intimacy and timelessness.A cherished friendship, captured in the soft, dreamlike glow of shared moments.Anchorage Today

In this personal essay, author Gwen Ford Faulkenberry describes her decades-long friendship with the doctor who delivered her three youngest children. Though they haven't seen each other in nine years, the bond between them feels timeless, with the doctor providing emotional support and mentorship through some of Faulkenberry's most difficult life experiences. Faulkenberry's visit to Alaska with her daughters allows them to witness the power of this cherished friendship.

Why it matters

This story highlights the profound impact that unexpected friendships can have, transcending traditional boundaries and providing a source of comfort, guidance and community. It serves as a reminder that true connection can be found in the most unlikely of places, and that the blessing of being cherished is a wonder to be celebrated.

The details

Faulkenberry's doctor friend, who delivered her three children after a difficult birth with her first child, became a trusted confidant and mentor. He supported her through personal challenges, even setting up an iPod with music for her to power walk and run to, and recommending a therapist. Though Faulkenberry's then-husband did not appreciate their friendship, the doctor remained a steadfast source of support, sharing his own experiences as a gay man working in a Catholic hospital.

  • Faulkenberry visited her doctor friend in Anchorage, Alaska, during her daughters' spring break in 2026.
  • The two had not seen each other in nine years prior to this visit.

The players

Gwen Ford Faulkenberry

An author, teacher and award-winning columnist from Ozark, Arkansas who is a litigant in a case against LEARNS.

Gwen's doctor friend

The obstetrician/gynecologist who delivered Faulkenberry's three youngest children and became a trusted mentor and close friend.

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What they’re saying

“It is the kind of friendship where you pick up where you left off. And whether it has been nine years or nine days, it feels like a favorite sweater that always fits just right. And it is timeless; other styles come and go, but it stays. Classic. A keeper.”

— Gwen Ford Faulkenberry, Author

The takeaway

This story reminds us that true friendship and community can be found in the most unexpected places, and that the blessing of being cherished by someone who sees and accepts you fully is a profound gift, regardless of time or distance.